Teaching Children About Money:Your Kids vs. Your Wallet

by Chemain Evans

How many times have you wondered whether your children think money does indeed grow on trees? It probably seems like every time you turn around your wallet is being attacked by the "gimme's". If you honestly examine your spending habits (and those of your kids), you may realize that you have not given them any reason believe that you don't have a money tree.
What follows is a collection of ideas about how we can instill in our children a better understanding of money and how it works.

Establish a Savings Account and a Plan
Every child should have his own savings account even if it is just a piggy bank. Whether your child receives an allowance or works a job, establishing a savings plan is a must. Saving for both long- and short-term goals will build a child's confidence in her ability to save and helps her learn delayed gratification. And, once the savings goal has been met, she may even discover that the money would be better spent for something else.

Hold a Bill-Paying Night
This is a great activity to show your school-age children where your money goes. You might even learn a bit yourself.

First, assemble a list of your monthly and/or weekly expenses and their amounts. The amounts don't have to be exact. Write the expenses and their amounts on separate slips of paper. Then, add up your monthly income and use pretend money (Monopoly® money or make your own) to represent the amount. Next, take the expense slips and give them to your children.

Have them come to you and "collect their bill" one expense at a time. This is an excellent visual representation of how quickly the paychecks get depleted!

Afterward, discuss ways you can cut your spending to help stretch the paychecks for things that are really important. You might be really surprised at your children's input.

Take Your Child Grocery Shopping
If your child can run a calculator, she can help you grocery shop. Give her a fixed amount that you will spend on groceries and have her subtract each item from the total as you shop. Teach her to compare food labels and get the best product for the money. Ask for her input about how you can reduce your overall grocery bill.

There are many ways to teach your children the value of money and help them build valuable skills. If you don't teach them, who will? So take the opportunity to call a cease-fire in the battle between your kids and your wallet and work out a compromise in which both sides win.